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Ask Them This.

The Original Catholic Dating Game

115 questions for Catholics to have real conversations and grow closer together.

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Sit next to each other and start a meaningful conversation. Draw a card, read the question out loud, and both of you answer. Let the conversation flow naturally. There's no scoring, no timer, and no winning. The questions range from light to deep. You choose the pace and don't need to ask every one. The goal is simple: understand the person next to you. Now look each other in the eyes and draw the first card!

They go deeper than small talk by design, but they're framed with warmth and respect. Use the ones that fit your pace and skip the ones that don't.

The questions are written for Catholics and those who take faith seriously in a relationship. Many still work for anyone open to intentional dating.

All of the above. The deck works for first dates, long-term relationships, engaged couples, and even spouses who want to reconnect more deeply.

You'll immediately unlock all 115 questions and can sign in anytime from any device to keep playing. If you ordered the physical deck, your cards will arrive by Christmas 2026.

If the deck isn't what you expected, contact us within 30 days for a full refund. No questions asked.

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“I have fallen in love with Ask Them This! It has encouraged me to ask more intentional questions on first dates and truly helps me get to know someone more than just on looks! I recommend if you’re single praying for your spouse!”

Isabella O

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9/19/2026

“Love these questions, they really break the ice and get conversation flowing. Highly recommend”

Andrea G

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9/19/2026

“This was excellent for date night! The questions were a low friction way of opening up about things we had never spoken about before. Made us feel way closer by the end of the night.”

Ricky T

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9/20/2026

“Really great game for anyone dating with intention. The questions do a good job of going beyond the typical surface level conversations and actually help you learn about the other person’s values, faith, goals, and how they approach relationships.”

Adam M

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9/20/2026

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Matthew, creator of Ask Them This
Made With Love

Hey, I’m Matthew.@SirHallihan

I create content about Catholic faith, dating, and living with purpose.

I built Ask Them This because Catholics like us who are serious about our faith had no real tools for dating with intention. Every other card game was either too shallow or had nothing to do with the Catholic life we’re called to live.

So I made one.

These are real questions I’ve asked and been asked on dates that will bring you closer to the right person.

This is the only kind of game you should be playing when dating.

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