The only game to play when dating.
Draw a card, ask a question, and go deeper than small talk.
Ask Them This.
115 real conversation starters for Catholics serious about love.
When did your faith stop being your parents' and start being your own?
Ask Them This - Catholic Dating Game
Pre-Orders Arrive by Christmas 2026
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From the first date to the long marriage.
Go deeper than small talk and “What’s your favorite color?”
If our life together was a quiet, hidden one, would that be enough?
Your questions, answered.
Everything you need to know before starting the conversation.
Sit next to each other and start a meaningful conversation. Draw a card, read the question out loud, and both of you answer. Let the conversation flow naturally. There's no scoring, no timer, and no winning. The questions range from light to deep. You choose the pace and don't need to ask every one. The goal is simple: understand the person next to you. Now look each other in the eyes and draw the first card!
They go deeper than small talk by design, but they're framed with warmth and respect. Use the ones that fit your pace and skip the ones that don't.
The questions are written for Catholics and those who take faith seriously in a relationship. Many still work for anyone open to intentional dating.
All of the above. The deck works for first dates, long-term relationships, engaged couples, and even spouses who want to reconnect more deeply.
You'll immediately unlock all 115 questions and can sign in anytime from any device to keep playing. If you ordered the physical deck, your cards will arrive by Christmas 2026.
If the deck isn't what you expected, contact us within 30 days for a full refund. No questions asked.
What couples are saying.
Hear from real couples playing Ask Them This.
Hey, I’m Matthew.@SirHallihan
I create content about Catholic faith, dating, and living with purpose.
I built Ask Them This because Catholics like us who are serious about our faith had no real tools for dating with intention. Every other card game was either too shallow or had nothing to do with the Catholic life we’re called to live.
So I made one.
These are real questions I’ve asked and been asked on dates that will bring you closer to the right person.
This is the only kind of game you should be playing when dating.